Here's the logic I used on my wife regarding guns and kids:
At some point, the kid is going to start going over to other kid's houses to play.
There is a decent chance (40-sometihng percent of all hoseholds in the US have guns) that she will be going to play in a house in which there is a gun.
Now, it's right and correct as a parent to ask if there is a gun and if so, is it secured against kids (not just "hidden") but even if they believe it is secured, someone may make a mistake and leave it out. There are other households in which the gun is lying around anyway.
As such, it is best to teach the child a couple of things: 1) what to do if you see a gun that is not Daddy's, with Daddy present, and here you go into the Eddie Eagle 3 steps (1. Don't touch it, 2) leave the area, 3) tell an adult). Then go further and explain that the child will have to know how to safely handle firearms if faced with them- how to load, unload, make the weapon safe, etc.
In addition to this, hopefully she sees your guns as a "hobby" and there is nothing better than sharing a loved hobby with your child, and she has to recognize that, even if there are loud bangs involved.
