I second both the comments on thd Kahr & Beretta 9000. The Beretta does not feel right in my hand. Too chunky. It feels awkward to me. I'm sure it is a fine shooter but you should lay hands on it first & see if it feels comfortable to you.
Here are a couple reviews on the Kahr -
Kahr PM9
Kahr P9
Kahr must be doing something right. They bought Auto-Ordnance outright awhile back. Full disclosure though, I do not own a Kahr. I bought a used ITM AT-84 as my main 9mm awhile back. It meets none of your selection criteria.
Here are a couple reviews on the Kahr -
Kahr PM9
Kahr P9
Kahr must be doing something right. They bought Auto-Ordnance outright awhile back. Full disclosure though, I do not own a Kahr. I bought a used ITM AT-84 as my main 9mm awhile back. It meets none of your selection criteria.